First Date Tips for Teen Girls

Teen girls look forward to their first date with a mixture of emotions, both fear and excitement. By preparing for that important step, the teen girl can lessen her anxiety so that her first date will be an enjoyable experience. A few simple tips can give her a concrete guide so she knows what to do.

Relax!

Remember, he probably asked you out for that date, so he is looking forward to spending time with you for who you are. He wants to get to know you better. The first boy you date will most likely not be who you marry, so have fun and enjoy yourself.

Physical Involvement

Set ground rules for physical involvement ahead of time. You will not be able to think clearly when hormones are raging. Don't let a guy pressure you to go further physically than you want. Especially on first dates, you do not need the added stress that physical intimacy places on a relationship. Affectionate touch, such as holding hands, a pat on the shoulder or a good-night kiss, should be the limit of your physical involvement on first dates.

Communication

Practice effective communication techniques. Be friendly, talk about yourself and your interests, but make sure you listen to him as well. Listening will help you discover what you do and don't like about him and will help you with further qualities to look for in dates. If he is evasive, rude or makes continued sexual comments, you know that he is not someone you want to see again. Don't be too flirty or pushy or fake. Be yourself.

Respect

Be respectful to him. Respect and trust are two-way streets, and he needs to treat you politely as well. If he is rude, question if he is really ready to date, or at least if you are the right choice for a date. Think enough of yourself to not accept anything less than the best treatment. You are worth it!